August 19, 2008

Dominant and submissive

Pearls of wisdom? Perhaps not, but nice words to read. I received both of these pieces in emails from the local BDSM club, I liked them enough to share them. While they use specific words, Master and slave, I think they are generally applicable to most BDSM relationships or any relationship perhaps? (I do not know their origins):

Master/Dominant
A Man who displays sensitivity will be a Master who is sensitive to you.
A Man who displays humility will be a Master who will show you respect.
A Man who is quiet will be a Master who will hear your quietest whisper.
A Man who knows fear will be a Master who will not leave you to face yours alone.
A Man who will listen to a child will be a Master who will always work to understand your words.
A Man who can stand alone will be a Master who will not crush you under His weight.
A Man who controls Himself with ease will be a Master with the ability to control you in the same way.
A Man who does not have to prove His point will be a Master with many worthwhile points to share.
A Man who never makes demands will be a Master who treasures anything you give.
A Man who doesn't run after you will be a Master you will never need to run away from.
A Man who is calm will be a Master who can weather your storms.
A Man who has walked the path to peace will be a Master able to guide you along that path.
A Man who does not shout will be a Master who will never deafen you.
A Man who knows Himself will be a Master who will have time to know you.
A Man with an open mind will be a Master who never stops learning.
A Man who never stops learning will be a Master who never stops growing.
A Man who always seeks to be the best He can be for you is the only Man truly worthy of being called your Master.

slave/submissive
slavery is not about suffering . . . it is about service.
slavery is not about humiliation . . . it is about humility.
slavery is not about being used . . . it is about being of use.
slavery is not about control . . . it is about letting go.
slavery is not about proving anything . . . it is about being real.
slavery is not about contempt . . . it is about respect.
slavery is not about how you look . . . it is about how you care.
slavery is not about punishment . . . it is about discipline.
slavery is not about being unable to escape . . . it is about being committed.
slavery is not about fear . . . it is about trust.
slavery is not about sex . . . it is about love!!!
. . . one of the hardest things about slavery is the fine line separating communication and obedience . . .

12 comments:

  1. thank you for sharing this, I really needed a reminder :)

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  2. I think this is great thank you for sharing.

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  3. Definetly pearls of wisdom...
    And something i greatly needed to read at this point, in my life.
    Thank you for sharing this..

    ~c

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  4. I am really enjoying your blog. Glimpses into a dominant mind.

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  5. Master or not, any man who displays these traits would be worth his weight in gold.

    we often talk about giving our gift of submission to our Dominants. however, i think the ability to experience, learn, and grow under such tutelage is by far the greater gift.

    hugs, elle

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  6. thank you for sharing this - it has certainly helped me to solidify my rambling needs.

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  7. Nice to see someone else who blogs and believe in high standards in the valley.

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  8. I absolutely adore this post. It is absolutely beautiful, telling, informative, straightforward and poetic. And, I love your blog. I have a lot of reading to do to catch up!! xo~Sadie

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  9. I had read the part about Masters/Dominants before, but had not read the submissive portion. I think that is a necessary part to understand the entire relationship. Thank you so much for posting both of these. Reading the first part was a nice reminder for me. :)

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  10. David, i didn't read this post of yours until after i reopened my blog and started fresh in my thinking using some of these very same guidelines. Something must be in the air :).

    -crys

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  11. Thank you so much for sharing this! I needed to read something like this today.

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