March 27, 2008

Who's your Daddy?

"Who's your daddy?" is a slang expression that takes the form of a rhetorical question. Use of the phrase implies a boastful claim of physical or sexual dominance over the intended listener. Comedians suggest that the phrase is frequently spoken by men in a Freudian outburst during sexual intercourse.
Origins
The phrase itself stands out as a noteworthy lyric from the 1968 song Time of the Season by The Zombies: "What's your name? Who's your daddy? Is he rich like me?"
Widespread provocative use of the phrase began as early as the late 1980's, largely due to its frequent use in sexually suggestive skits broadcast by a popular syndicated radio shock jock known as "The Greaseman".

3 comments:

  1. I am always interested in learning more about this term. Through some careful coaching and wonderful play I am beginning to feel the difference between daddy and "Daddy".

    I noticed you have yourself listed as a father and then later as a Daddy. I'm sure you understand the difference that I'm discovering.

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  2. I am glad you are getting beyond the father connotation, and enjoying that difference. I can certainly understand you initial reluctance and "creepiness".

    Have fun, and yes, I do understand.

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  3. and what about that old Cole Porter song, which dates back to at least 1938. That second line in the intro about "minding my duties" has a definite submissive flavor to it:

    I used to fall in love with all those boys who maul the young cuties
    But now I find I’m more inclined to keep my mind on my duties.

    While tearing off a game of golf
    I may make a play for the caddy
    But when I do, I don’t follow through
    ‘cause my heart belongs to Daddy.

    If I invite a boy some night
    To dine on my fine finnan haddie
    I just adore his asking for more
    But my heart belongs to Daddy

    Yes my heart belongs to Daddy
    So I simply couldn’t be bad
    Yes, my heart belongs to Daddy
    Da-da-da, da-da-da, da-da-da
    So I want to warn you, laddie
    Though I know you’re perfectly swell
    But my heart belongs to Daddy
    ‘cause my Daddy he treats it so well

    There was a dame that a football game
    Made long for the strong undergraddie
    I never dream of making the team
    ‘cause my heart belongs to daddy

    Yes, my heart belongs to Daddy
    So I simply couldn’t be bad
    Yes, my heart belongs to Daddy
    Da-da-da, da-da-da, da-da-da
    So I want to warn you, laddie
    Though I know you’re perfectly swell
    That my heart belongs to Daddy
    ‘cause my Daddy, he treats it so well

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