I came across a list of favorites at the Thinking Dominant Blog, suggesting you define your favorite activities in the context of what you like best in a D/s relationship. I found that type of information might well energize a discussion going with others, as we are often asked what we like or don't like. Thanks for providing a handy reference.
Addedum: The Thinking Dominant Blog has been incorporated into the Iron Gate website and the article is gone.
Addedum: The Thinking Dominant Blog has been incorporated into the Iron Gate website and the article is gone.
A simple list might be appropriate for initial contact but if it forms the basis for a relationship then discovering new pleasures may never happen.
ReplyDeleteI know some of my dominants preferences for dressing but it is only by trying something new and watching his response that my knowledge grows. It adds a degree of suspense for me and presumably a interesting surprise for him on those days i do this.
The intent is to lay out the slightest pencil sketch, to be filled in and colored in later.
ReplyDeleteBut it provides a simple basic shape that can be filled in as you say as familiarity and intimacy develop.
I would love to see your list if you still have it. I love to color.
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