February 17, 2008

Deviance - C M N F

A frequent theme on submissive blogs is objectification and exhibitionism, two somewhat related activities. An interesting manifestation of this is CMNF (Clothed Male, Naked Female), involving one or more females in the presence of several or many clothed men.
(There is a corresponding CFNM. Some quick Googling actually produces more “mainstream” examples of CFNM).

For quite a while I was a regular visitor to a website that offered a free and open exchange of photos and videos of this kind of activity. That site became a pay site about a year ago and recent attempts to access the front page now return a blank Index page. Clearly many of the pictures were posed, but some were genuine examples and it was obvious that there was considerable embarrassment, humiliation and shame, as well as arousal and eroticism for the girls involved. This kind of activity is much too “out there” for most of America, and virtually all of the examples I have seen appear to be in England, France or Scandinavian countries. I wouldn’t be surprised to find this kind of activity going on at college campuses, fraternities and so on, but not much elsewhere, certainly not as openly as it seems to be in Europe.

I have participated in small examples of this, such as Super Bowl parties with lifestyle friends where one or more submissives acted as servers to the assembled party guests. I have also attended dinner parties where wife of the host was naked, and acting quite normally but obviously compelled by her Master.

I always love the way Wikipedia describes perversions; so, CMNF is a term for a paraphilia (look that one up sometime) involving one or more nude women and one or more clothed men. It is generally used as a label for pictorial erotica or pornography, or a sexual fantasy depicting such a scenario; however, CMNF gatherings of men and women interested in this type of erotic pursuit do occur as well. CMNF is also a type of sexual objectification of women by men.
The general category of "CMNF" is fairly broad, encompassing several different types of scenario. The most common subdivisions of the genre involve either an activity under the rubric of male domination, exhibitionism or entertainment; combination of all categories is somewhat rare, although several web sites cater to the subgenres separately. See also Erotic humiliation.

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16 comments:

  1. I find naked bodies rather boring to look at, doesn't matter if they are male or female, they loose any mystique.

    I don't know how i would feel about being in that girls position. I don't have a problem with my naked body but it has a problem if the temperature drops below 28 centigrade. Can't see any of those guys happy being in such a warm environment. ;-)

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  2. "Paraphilia is also used to imply non-mainstream sexual practices without necessarily implying dysfunction or deviance (see Clinical warnings section). Also, it may describe sexual feelings toward otherwise non-sexual objects."


    CHOCOLATE paraphilia!!! That's what i'm talkin' 'bout!!

    ps:
    clothed male/naked female..SOP..see why i don't ever get to feel kinky?? lol@me

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  3. Hello doll,
    I am not sure if it for the viewing pleasure or the embarrassment factor. Actually, I am pretty sure it is for the exposure and humiliation.

    Hi s/nik,
    I am sure it is SOP in a mot of households, but I am not sure MJ would take youout in public that way?

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  4. We'll ask Him! Which means we can safely assume the answer will be negative..i think He gets His exhibitionistic tendencies out on His blog...but that's probably more the embarrassment thing...and to desensitize me as far as ego goes....my private parts are not mine, but His, if you will.

    It will be interesting to hear His response when He gets home!

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  5. Having had the pleasure of birthing children in full view of my parents I really don't think I would find nakedness humiliating or shameful, nothing could match that experience for me.

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  6. doll, I am sure that is the case, it is not an experience I would be able to have, but it sounds like a topper.

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  7. This is very interesting. Is there sex involved in the get-together? If not, how is this something sexual. It just sounds like someone being naked (which I don't particularly care for "just being naked" without a reason). Of course I'm not sure I'd sign up for this!

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  8. I suppose there is eventually sex involved; isn't there always? And maybe it isn't sexual at all.

    And why wouldn't you sign up for this?

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  9. I'd love to be the lone naked male in a room of clothed women, all for me to serve and be humiliated by them. Thank you for the post!

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  10. Thank you for your comment sheen, it is interesting to hear the presepctive of a submissive who might find such a circumstance humiliating. Have you ever been in such a situation?

    David

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  11. Is it strange that I'd never really heard of this before?

    Alright, I am officially the most "vanilla" submissive in the world *laugh*.

    kitty

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  12. Only once, and it was very enjoyable.

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  13. This is so interesting...I would find this to be a complete turn-on. And i think it would be a sexual experience for me, whether or not any sex was involved.

    Thanks for giving me something else to fantasize about!

    -Kitten

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  14. Hi kitty, we just seemed destined to discover firsts for you don't we? I am given to wonder what other deviances you have yet to discover?

    sheen, pray tell, what were the circumstances of your one experience? And what befell you? Inquiring mind want to know.

    Kitten, you should find an opportunity to turn the fantasy into a reality. It is too bad the superbowl is passed for this year, but there must be some event where you could do CMNF hosting for Him and a small circle of friends?

    Thank you all for your comment, interest and sharing.

    David

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  15. Try the website schambereich.de. It's all in german but has some good cmnf pics.

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  16. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/extreme_cmnf/

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