Comments on A View from the Top: Hand Controls

Your blog is amazing - thank you for contacting me...

2008-09-17T00:00:00.000-07:00

Your blog is amazing - thank you for contacting me on the fet life forum (His_babydoll). So did this event with hand signals and the Asian girl actually happen or it this fantasy? Have you done hand signals with a sub before? Seems it would appeal to you, since you enjoy providing humiliation, etc =)

marianne - it was indeed wonderful interplayaoefe ...

2008-07-20T22:14:00.000-07:00

marianne - it was indeed wonderful interplay

aoefe - yes Vegas is a wonderful place for such things, although as wild and out there as it appears, that kinkiness is largely superficial. I have lived here for ten years and there are no viable fetish clubs or BDSM clubs.

I wish you'd been here too.

I think Vegas is the perfect place for such a site...

2008-07-19T17:59:00.000-07:00

I think Vegas is the perfect place for such a site. I love the City. I've seen a man in heels walked by his woman partner. I've seen two men proudly showing off their hired entertainment. It's the place if you're going to be bold.

If you don't want to watch in that oh so sinful of Cities, stay home. That said, I don't think it's normal fare for most places on Earth.

I wish I'd been there.

aoefe

Elle,if we can agree that a Lady is the corollary ...

2008-07-18T06:45:00.000-07:00

Elle,

if we can agree that a Lady is the corollary of a Gentleman then lets turn the scene around. It a man came up to the table provocatively dressed and proceeded to fondle his balls would you consider him a gentleman?

Speaking for myself, I knew I was submissive when ...

2008-07-16T18:17:00.000-07:00

Speaking for myself, I knew I was submissive when I was but 8-9 years old. I didn't know what it was called at the time of course, but I knew how I felt. So, IMO a woman in her 20's, the age of legal consent, is not too young to be and/or know she's a submissive.

In addition, while I don't agree with the nature of play, I would not automatically assume that she was something less than a "Lady" when the only glimpse of her overall character is what we've read in David's post.

Elle,she was too young and not in charge. Not haug...

2008-07-16T15:52:00.000-07:00

Elle,

she was too young and not in charge. Not haughty but naughty.

Fascinating interplay.

2008-07-16T13:01:00.000-07:00

Fascinating interplay.

Like charli, I do not believe in pushing play so b...

2008-07-16T04:43:00.000-07:00

Like charli, I do not believe in pushing play so blatantly into the vanilla realm. IMO, this would be just as bad as someone forcing me to listen to their religious and political beliefs.

to doll – I found your “not a Lady surely” comment odd. Would you care to explain what you meant by it?

Steph - indeed it wass/nik - she did well at the g...

2008-07-14T03:23:00.000-07:00

Steph - indeed it was

s/nik - she did well at the game

silkie - probably more that you know, one word - nipples

charli - it was very sensual, inappropriate for public, but that was likely part of the fascination for them/us

slave girl - indeed it was, I suspect signaling is more prevalent than many would think

shelly - blackjack is a game between each player and the dealer/house, not between players

doll - not a Lady, but a very pleasant girl

Not a Lady surely?DS - What joy's your powers of o...

2008-07-10T03:15:00.000-07:00

Not a Lady surely?

DS - What joy's your powers of observation bring you. And then what pleasure you give us.

I wonder....did the lady clean up at the table bec...

2008-07-09T19:52:00.000-07:00

I wonder....did the lady clean up at the table because the other players were otherwise distracted? ;)

Master uses hand signals with me all the time. It'...

2008-07-09T16:52:00.000-07:00

Master uses hand signals with me all the time. It's Her preference. She points, getures, or snaps her fingers when it comes to getting my attention. She thinks it is easier than having to tell me what to do aloud, She says. and of course, in the company of those unaware. That must have been quite a sight!

What an extremely sensual and arousing scene to ha...

2008-07-09T06:57:00.000-07:00

What an extremely sensual and arousing scene to have witnessed.

I do not really believe in such ostentatious types of public play as it "intrudes" upon other people.....mind you, I don't think you or the other men at the table minded, but you know what I mean. By causing a scene they are pushing themselves into other people's space and I don't think that is right.

But all that aside, the control that she afforded to him, is very erotic.

grins..what I got out of this was THANK god some m...

2008-07-06T13:39:00.000-07:00

grins..what I got out of this was THANK god some men don't mind small breasts - being boobily-challenged myself LOL ... sounds like a wonderful scene - I am appreciative of your observation that, although nervous, the woman seemed to find the commands provocative herself.

The question is...how was she doing with the game?...

2008-07-06T05:00:00.000-07:00

The question is...how was she doing with the game?

MJ uses hand signals in public..for reason of not offending the vanillas in our life (and probably to test my level of observation and attentiveness!) He saves his exhibitionistic impulses for His blog..luckily for me..i am not into humiliation and am always "shy" in public!

A beautiful thing to watch.

2008-07-05T09:51:00.000-07:00

A beautiful thing to watch.